Friday, November 29, 2019

The Case of a Curious Rat

‘Twas a small rat
Quintessential, yet curious
Charming and cheery,
He easily made new friends:
Friends that pampered, and adored him.
Encouraged by the adulation within a secured home,
The young rat wandered and foraged beyond his boundaries:
Into deep woods,
With many a snake burrows and eagle hills.
Much as he missed his dear home,
He braved into new quarters
Learnt living,
Between anthills and snake burrows;
Between eagle hills and weasel holes.


Maneuvering through branches and barks,
Over organic wastes
Nibbling, burrowing, burrowing, nibbling;
While observing his coterie:
Enthralled by their skills,
The little rat worked harder,
Holding his breath,
Self-criticizing and adapting,
Adapting and self-criticizing
He assumed to be growing.
Yet, perennially fearful of the vastness of the forest
And succumbing to the skills of his cohort:
Trying to emulate them and failing,
As the cohorts built themselves.
He grew perplexed with the incoherence:
Incoherently, independently numerous surviving skills
Of individuals among a multitude in the cohort


Until one night when he was caught in a storm
He stumbled in the new dark
And pondered deeply:
To try and fix the survival puzzle
When he realized,
“I should root myself within;
Let me build on MY strength:
That is where my self-esteem blooms.”
It is a process, yet perpetual:
Feed a little self-esteem, and build on my strength
Build on my strength and feed a little self-esteem.
These days, he does observe his cohort:
More to establish understanding and relationships,
And less to emulate and succumb.
It’s a happy life, of mutual admiration, mutual respect and mutual learning.

Friday, November 22, 2019

Monday, November 11, 2019

Sunday - 2

Sundays are way too special for me, the Sundays where we get to spend time together- just the two of us. This Sunday was no different. Very interestingly, there is no single thing that stands out of our Sunday activities- every one of them is so special.

We started off with our meditation in the morning (You gently encouraging me to meditation with a, "Amma, did you meditate today? Why are you expressing anger?", whenever I lose my balance). You ate the pancake as you watched Nick Jr, and then goofed up around the house, while I cooked your lunch.

We went on our Swimming trip- today, you made a full lap across the swimming pool without any support. Your master showed you swimming on your back - boy, with what ease you did that?! After the class, you taught me the back swimming, and when I did it wrong the first time, you corrected me - ' Amma, don't wave your hands this way, wave them anticlock wise'. And I learnt it from you, with you. Then, we played chasing the swimming caps across the swimming pool, you winning every single time of it. On the way back, we eyed the mangoes- the ones dada had admonished against a couple of weeks ago. With the help of an elderly thatha, we brought back one home.

Your lunch began with the cheese biscuits and the 50-50's we had taken for a aftersnack to the swimming pool, and finished with your favorite yam fries. The expressions you made - twitching the eyebrows, the perfect dents in the eyebrows that formed with them, while we planned your icecream - I'd take those expressions for life. Your admiration for the icecream - I would let you devour on all the icecream we have for those cuteness. All my attempts to make you sleep in vain, after we watched the Telugu movie - 'A, Aa' . Our unending talks around the movie, about toys et al.

And then, we walked over to the library - your means of saying no are a lesson to learn - you listen to the person, without indulging yourself, and without retorting - that, my boy, is a sign of maturity. Towards the end, when the kids were asked to draw a farm in the rain, you drew the lovely scene. A farmhouse, with a tree and some shrubs. A bird living on the tree (As an afterthought, a frog too), a snake chasing for the bird, and an eagle eyeing for the snake.  You also added, "The eagle would fly faster than the snake slithering, and in no time would get hold of the snake. The bird and frog will be safe". I am mighty proud of all the details that went into this drawing.

As we returned, you asked for playing at the playground. When I reasoned that you were tired, and haven't slept in the afternoon, you didn't protest, and followed me, despite your friends having some fun at the playground. We returned home to some chips, paniyaram, and went to bed with a chapter of Charlotte's web.

I wish all my days are filled with this kind of bonding moments between the two of us. How I miss our togetherness!


Tuesday, November 5, 2019

Whimsical 4

Had ordered a karaoke mic on Ezbuy a month ago, just for some fun-thought it would also be useful for our reading club. It just got delivered yesterday. 

As soon as we unwrapped, we charged it for awhile and he started talking into it. Then he goes to Jee and claims, "Look Jee, we have a mic. We haven't wasted paisa on this. Only an investment-look, it's golden with silver handle". Much to my amusement.

Background story: he always complains when Jee buys stuff during her weekend getaways-'Amma, better don't give her paisa, she spends everything and then comes back to you asking for more. Wasting all paisa", he twitches everytime she shows us something she purchases. A couple of weeks ago, when she showed us her newly bought golden ring, he parroted this grandfathery warning. I defended her with a lecture on why gold is an investment, and is not a waste of paisa.

Sunday, November 3, 2019

Whimsical 3: Gentle Influences

He performed on stage for Yuvotsav 2019. Paired with his best friend for a dance. What a lovely performance that was-mighty proud of how he carried himself so effortlessly on stage. Esp the cartwheeling.

After the performance, he had a whale of time with his friends at the Nanyang auditorium. As usual, dada was at the receiving end of their endless antics. They also played frisbee with a sheet of paper fan and what fun that was?!

As we prepared to leave home, our efforts to book a taxi was an utter failure. So, the three families decided to take the Shuttle bus from NTU, go upto Pioneer and then disperse in taxis. As we waited for the shuttle bus, he came upto me and sought my permission to "explore" in the adjoining grass- whatever that was! I agreed, and he apparently climbed over the steel railings to get onto the grass, much to Dada's displeasure. He was literally screaming and begging not to do so. Bloom wouldn't budge a bit. Unsuccessful, dada relented. A few mins later, Bloom called upto his dearest friend Shri: 'Come on here, let's explore’. She said, 'No, it's  hot, I don't want to come up'. Bloom was, 'Oh yeah, it's hot' and immediately sought after the shelter of the bus stop. Much to our loud laughter's!